"Hooking up," "Friends with benefits," "Booty call" are terms you might be familiar with.

Depending on the generation you are from these terms either have no meaning or a clear meaning of what they entail.  For those who are unfamiliar with this terminology the three phrases all mean the same thing -  sex for sex's sake, no emotional involvement whatsoever.  Meet up for sex and move on, same as a one night stand.

This is the new way of "dating" a way in which the only expenditure you need to perform is your physical activity during the sexual act itself.  These things require only a means to communicate with a willing person, call them and get it done.

But is this the right way for you to exist.  Is a hookup good enough for you or do you need something more, something with more meaning.   Hooking up vs. lasting love - questions you must consider before determining which it will be for you... read more

Here we go again, Friends with Benefits!  Have you ever had a man approch you with a proposal for a friends with benefits relationship?  It may sound so good, to have sex on call without any romantic or relationship responsibilites involved.

But let's see if there is a flip side to this type of arrangement. 

Having sex for a woman causes an emotional bond, unlike a male for whom sex is just a physical activity.  Are you going to be ok with this bond growing stronger the more you have sex with this guy.  Can you handle him using you as a sex toy without being emotionally involved with you.

Friends with benefits  is a great deal for a guy but is it a great deal for you?

Think about it before you jump in with both feet....

The bootycall is when you call someone just to have sex.  For most men this is a true fantasy, sex with no strings attached.  Let's talk about how to make this happen.

1.  Call early, let the lady know early that you want to come over for booty.  Give her time to get ready.

2.  Be honest, tell her what you are coming over for.  Don't assume that she can read your mind.

3.  Set a time, this means set a specific time, don't leave her waiting for you. 
          Remember when she's not happy - neither will you.  Mission failure!

Warning!  Do not start as friends, you want only one thing - sex!  Find a woman who also wants sex... read more



 

A true male fantasy is "sex without any of the other baggage that goes with a relationship."

Oh, to have a woman at your beck & call, anytime you feel like sex just give her a call and she's there, ready and willing.  And then she goes home.

Is this only possible in a fantasy or is there a way to make it happen in reality?

Check out this simple 5 step plan to find women who want the same thing you do - a simple booty call or "friends with benefits."  ...read the plan here.

Can a friendship between two people survive casual sex?  Or is this just wishful thinking?

People used to have one night stands which made it easier to just do it and move on.  Today people are spending more tiime on friendships and then turning their frienships into sexual relationships with no strings attached.

These fortunate people are still friends but enagaging in sexual relationships with each other without the traps and pitfalls of a regular romantic entanglement.

How are they able to do this?... read more